I cannot forgive myself for not seeing my mother when she was sick in bed.
母亲病的时候我没能去看她,为这件事我永远不能原谅我自己。
It is then left completely undisturbed with plenty of food and water so that it can absorb the atmosphere of its new home
然后给它以充足的食物和水,一定不要惊扰它,以便让它能适应新居的气氛,